Get 1-on-1 support for your long-distance relationship

. . . from someone who's been where you are.

Hey, it's Ruby —

That’s me and my husband, Reed, up there. We dated long-distance for 1.5 years before moving & getting married.

We may be smiling in that photo, but long-distance was rough for us.

We argued. We struggled with purity. We missed each other like crazy. 

Sound familiar?

If you’re nodding your head, you know that distance is even harder when literally no one knows what you’re going through.

But . . . what if it didn’t have to be that way?

What if you could talk with someone who loves Jesus AND knows the struggles of long-distance dating inside and out?

Discover how to build a Christ-centered, long-distance relationship

Get support for your relationship by chatting 1-on-1 with Ruby.

It’s hard when you don’t have anyone to talk with about your joys, sorrows & fears related to long-distance dating.

That’s why I’d love to connect with you & encourage you 1-on-1 via video chat.

I’m not just here to write a bunch of words on a website & hope God uses them to encourage you (although I pray He does!).

Your dating relationship is unique, and I want to support you in the specific challenges you’re facing.

. . . So, what exactly would you & I talk about on these video chats?

If you just started long-distance & you’re freaking out: I’ll encourage you & show you six keys to building a Christ-centered, long-distance relationship.

If your relationship is struggling, but you’re afraid to admit it: I’ll help you seek God’s endless grace & wisdom as someone whose relationship needed buckets of it (and still does!).

If you have so many questions, you don’t know where to start: I’ll answer your questions honestly & help you figure out next steps for your relationship.

If talking 1-on-1 sounds intimidating, don’t worry! Our conversation will be casual & relaxed. I’m just a normal gal with a similar story to yours. 🙂

I don’t have all the answers — only God does — but I’m 100% here to encourage & support you however I can.

How It Works (It's Pretty Easy)

Glance at my calendar to see when I’m available. We can chat as soon as tomorrow! 🙂

Once you choose a time, I’ll email you a Zoom link, instructions for secure payment ($18 per call), and a short get-to-know you form!

During our casual chat, I’ll introduce you to Six Keys to Building a Christ-Centered, Long-Distance Relationship. Based on where you’re at in your relationship, we’ll dive deeper into the topics that will be most helpful for you.

After our first chat, you can decide to set up another time to talk or just leave it at that. 

Frequently Asked Questions

If you’re . . . 

  • A woman in a long-distance dating relationship
  • Eager to honor Christ in everything you do
  • Ready to grow & put effort into making your relationship work

Then yes, this is for you!

P.S. If you’re in a dating relationship that will be long-distance soon, I can help you prepare for that transition, too.

Every dating relationship is unique. With 1-on-1 chats, you can ask specific questions & receive personal encouragement from me. I truly care about you & want to support you wherever you’re at in your relationship!

You’ll also be supporting the continued ministry of this website, allowing me to devote more time to creating Christ-centered content for you & thousands of others. 

No worries! If you let me know at least 24 hours before your scheduled time, you can reschedule or get a refund at no extra charge. Cancellations within 24 hours are non-refundable. Please email me at [email protected] if you need to cancel or reschedule.

I’m a follower of Jesus Christ. If you’re curious, you can read my Statement of Faith.

Have another question? Email me at [email protected].

I can't wait to meet you!